So what happen when you love your damn self but not liking what you see in the mirror? So many of us women are battling with our image everyday. It could be our weight, boob size, butt size, hair, face, teeth- there is always something that we are not satisfied with. I have been battling for years after my last child birth with my beautiful war scars I have acquired (stretched marks). I have done everything to get rid of them but nothing seems to work. I even went as far as to get a consultation for a tummy tuck because on top of the stretched marks, the extra skin from my weight lost is still in my abdomen area.
People look at me crazy when I mention I want a tummy tuck because I have a small frame but they don’t know how I feel when I get undress and see this part of my body. I’m disgusted- I want my flat stomach back before I birthed children. I’m sick of putting on clothes and having to wear a griddle to hide the bulge or resorting to high waisted jeans. I want to be able to wear crop tops and bikinis because besides my stomach, I think I have a great figure after having four children. I look at women on social media who was brave enough to have work done and I want to be brave like them but the fear of going under a knife have me hesitant. So I resort back to eating right, cutting the meats out my diet, exercising and it seem like for nothing. Then I have people tell me- it’s not so bad at least your not fat???
If I view it as a problem then it is a problem. Why do people feel as though they know what’s best for your body? Or someone always have something negative to say after the work is done. Trust me- all these advertisements on waist trainers, keto diets, exercising, becoming vegan/vegetarian- none of that shit help with toning the muscles. It surely do get the weight off but a great majority of these females advertising these items got some type of work done and don’t want to admit it. So you got me spending all this money for nothing when I can just apply it to a quick fix like they did. So my goal before I turn 40 in three years is to get this procedure called Mommy Makeover. The Mommy Makeover is a combination of plastic surgery techniques to restore the shape and appearance of a woman’s body after child birth. The possible procedures in a Mommy Makeover are: Breast Augmentation, Breast Lift, Buttock augmentation, Tummy tuck, liposuction and vaginal rejuvenation.
I did a consultation for this procedure years ago but then I listened to everyone telling me that I don’t need it done- just work out. While, I’m all worked out now and diet out. If loving myself consists of me changing a few things so that I can love my damn self even more than why not do it! People just need to mind their own body and stop worrying about others ❤️